Random Discipline Reminders

I read a fabulous article over at Positive Parenting: Toddlers and Beyond this week. (Go ahead . . . check it out. You know you want to.) Nothing on this list is new to me, but sometimes I just need to hear it.

I've written a bit on discipline on this blog, including my own failures. In general, I take three things into consideration when considering positive discipline at our house:

This was taken 6 (!) months ago . . . one of my favorites

Does it sound like a plan for training pets?

If so, I probably don't want it applied to my children.

Would I be comfortable with another person (e.g., teacher, babysitter, friend) implementing it in my absence?

If not, I probably shouldn't be using it either.

Will it have a positive effect on our relationship?

I try to abide by a connect first, address second guideline.

My goal for this week, this day, this hour (on those really frustrating days) is to remember the relationship I have with my children is more important than any "issue" we deal with. 

I will focus on the positive and the present. 

I will speak intentionally and kindly.

I will demonstrate not demand.

Join me?

Thank you for reading and have a blessed day.